When I was 13, my most treasured possession was a neon orange, black and red floral vintage dress. It was the only thing in my closet that wasn’t black, but it was sufficiently punk.

I loved and wore this dress constantly for two years. 

It was my trusty companion to my first concert (New Order), my first “proper” make out with my boyfriend and many, many furtively dragged Marlborough Lights on the top field at Wanganui Girls College. 

But then one morning when I was fifteen, I pulled out my trusty dress and put it on. 

It didn’t fit. Literally, it was too tight. But also, metaphorically, it didn’t feel quite right. I still loved it, but it didn’t fit the version of me that I’d been growing into over those two years.

After much angst and some ill-fitting excursions with my dress, I did, as Marie Kondo instructs, and said “thank you” before I let it go with love.

What do you need to let go of?

This isn’t just about a dress. Turns out, leaders and organisations also hold on to things for too long.

Here are some examples of what you might need to let go of:

• The golden brand that was a star, then became a cash cow and is now a dog, as per the BCG matrix.
• The IT system that’s worked swimmingly for your organisation until one day - it suddenly doesn’t.
• The leadership practice that’s been your superpower, until you discover that now it’s become an overused strength.
• The strategy that’s no longer fit for purpose or doesn’t match up to the future you’re facing.

There comes a time where companies and leaders must also ‘make like Marie Kondo’. 

Over the last six months, I’ve found myself in the dress predicament again. But this time, it’s about my business, my brand, the way I communicate and what I’m communicating about what I do.

How do you identify what to let go of?

1. Look for dis-ease.

Instead of feeling energy, flow, and excitement, you feel a small but noticeable discomfort. Maybe you’re getting patterns of feedback from different stakeholders that something’s clunky, wrong or not working well. Maybe you’re looking at the external factors rolling towards you, your team, or the organisation - and the roadmap you’re operating from doesn’t make quite as much sense as it did.

2. Identify and question sacred cows.

Look at any firmly-held beliefs that have gone unquestioned and consider: if you had the courage to look at this more closely, would it still pass the test? If you find instances of unconscious acceptance, or hear anyone saying: “we’ve always done it this way”, that’s a clue to explore further.

3. Think Greenfields.

If you were to start from scratch and a blank piece of paper, knowing what you’re facing, and looking at the landscape, would your leadership practice/strategy/system be the one you would choose? What would you do differently if you were designing something now for your desired outcome?

4. Grieve (if you must), acknowledge and let go.

Like I did with my dress, you can acknowledge the journey you have taken together. Heck, you can even turn it into a story to be kept dear in your hearts and minds. But then, let it go – it’s time to face reality.

5. Keep what does fit and what works.

Consider what DOES work and what you should keep. As with any metaphorical spring cleaning, or wardrobe strategy, work out your own version of the classic black jacket.

Before you go ahead with your own clean out and reassessment, here are the results of my own Marie Kondo journey.

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As an organisation and a leader, you sometimes need to shake things up, shift things out, and think about who you’re evolving to be. Take a look at what still fits and what you need to move on from. A final thank you to the brand that has gotten me this far, and the dress that shepherded me through those key moments of my early teenage years.

Here’s to having the courage to let go of what no longer serves us while we keep only what does.

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